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Yves, 76
Royal Tunbridge Wells
I am French but lived here for a long time. I like affectionate men and very cuddly who like kissing a lot.
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Bicurius, 70
Hull
I get excited wearing female clothes and would like someone to take them off me. I am looking forward to meeting a dominant male who would satisfy my female urges.
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madeigaly, 56
Gainsborough
Please. NOT SEND MR WINK LIKE ME CHAT WINK IS JUST WAS TIME please. Don't ask me phot when u not have or on start conversation Looking honest guys to spend rest. My life.
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Hutch, 51
Southampton
At 51, I know what I want, and I’m here for no-nonsense encounters. I’m gay, versatile, and open to whatever sparks the interest, whether that’s a casual hook-up or a fun group meet. If you’re keen on discreet adventures and have a bit of a wild side, let’s chat!
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Dad4B, 59
Sunderland
Big & I am a 68 large mature gay guy living in south Tyneside, I am looking for younger 18-35 no older please. I am, any questions message me very discreetI am not hung and I am not small; look a cock is a cock enjoy.
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ID verified BlondguyAL, 54
Saint Albans
I’m a British guy working in the charity sector. My life is fairly full, but I make time for the right person. I’m well-travelled, comfortable in myself, and prefer a steady, honest way of living. I enjoy eating out, good takeaways, and time to switch off.I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone emotionally mature, open, and ready for something genuine. I value consistency, affection, and being able to talk properly, not just message endlessly.I tend to be drawn to men around my height or shorter. Stubble is OK; not keen on heavy beards. Non-smoker is important.I’m not interested in drama, games, or situations where someone isn’t able to be themselves. If you’re already in a relationship, or prefer to stay hidden, we’re unlikely to be a match.Top, monogamous, and straightforward about what I want. Happy to start with a conversation and see where it leads.
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ID verified fillempty, 50
Crewkerne
I am a bottom guy who likes being naked for mature guys to enjoy. Happy to try most things twice or even 3 times. Would love to try a 3 some more; if you don't ask, you'll never know. I might try that with you if you tell me what it is.
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kristian, 42
Darwen
About me: Kind-hearted, genuine, and looking for something real. I value honesty, respect, loyalty, and consistency above everything else. I've learned that trust takes time to build, so I take things slow- no rushing, no games. I accept people as they are, and I want the same in return. I'm looking for someone who sees me, not just one part, and stays when things get real. Here for a serious, long- term connection, not casual fun. If you're kind, patient, and ready to show up fully ... I'd love to hear from you
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ID verified rimisc, 49
Holbeach
Hey there! I'm a 48-year-old sub standing at 5'11' from Spalding who loves to explore and enjoy life. I’m all about friendships that could lead to something more. Let's connect and see where our adventures take us!
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SensualJazz, 50
London
Be yourself. Happiness and Joy. Honest and integrity.
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ID verified ottoa, 54
London
just me ;)
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ID verified gazza1974, 52
Crieff
Fun easy going guy who is always up for a laugh and some gud hard horny cockfun xxx
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