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olneypete, 68
Olney
Hi i`m a smart professional guy who has recently retired. Enjoy the finer things in life. Fun, lively and outgoing. Like nights in and also local nights out.
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ID verified easylemon, 47
Plymouth
I'm slim and fairly tall, just under 6 ft and 10 stone. I like to be owned and controlled, right down to my name, what I wear and my gender, because I feel so worthless without being put in my place. I have a 36" chest, 30" waist and 36.5" hips and am very easily overpowered.
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Reki5032, 19
Hull
I don’t fully know to be honest sorry all. I like flirting tho
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SausageJockey, 56
Hyde
Looking for regular meets with younger bottoms and older tops.
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PAT, 56
West Molesey
56 years old work too much enjoy walking and outdoors. As of June 26 I'm looking to start couch 2 5k again. Non smoker, not looking for here and now, been single for too long
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Philinstoke, 64
Etruria
Old bugger over 60. Likes to play with a nice cock big or small
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ID verified rimisc, 48
Holbeach
Hey there! I'm a 48-year-old sub standing at 5'11' from Spalding who loves to explore and enjoy life. I’m all about friendships that could lead to something more. Let's connect and see where our adventures take us!
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ID verified seano, 54
Nottingham
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Rightstud, 42
London Colney
I'm very tall enough to see through the window. Enjoy keeping my peace and love Neatness and I enjoy good Movies and sports, Love most of the outdoors and gardening . Very much Romantic and Playful .
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ID verified SkinArse, 68
London
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dieselboy3, 50
Purley
Im Spanish/Indian mix! Handsome guy ;) Love to meet a nice friends and more. Live in South London ( Surrey )
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ID verified Looking, 52
Bradford
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