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gb_john, 70
Wavertree
I'm a pleasant, genuine person with a sense of humour and seriousness too. Could do with shedding some (!!) pounds (being very honest here, hope that's ok?). I live alone. I am retired and spend quite a lot of my time doing voluntary work I enjoy company and I like to chat. I enjoy travel and visiting new places both in the UK and abroad. I ride a motorbike (I wouldn't describe myself as a "biker"; not now anyway!). Music plays a very important role in my life. I grew out my beard during lockdown for 406 days straight, but it's been trimmed since! I love muscular guys and bodybuilders too, guys with long hair, hairy guys, and guys with beards. Don't get on here very often, but please do leave a message or have a chat!
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tea_and_hobnobs, 54
Belfast
I’m a fun-loving guy with a zest for life, always up for a good laugh. At 5'8", I may be average in height, but my personality definitely stands tall. I’m here to meet genuine people who enjoy engaging conversations, cozy nights in, and the occasional adventure around town. Let's create some memorable moments together, shall we?
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Musculorosso, 52
Sudbury
Single handsome prince in white horse, looking for friendship, connecting people...
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Tender and loving, 64
Swindon
Recently separated, hence the timid start. First time being able to do what I want. I'm very easy going and up for some dirty lovin fun. Have bought dirty underwear, cock rings, vibrating butt plug, lube (of course) and a modest dildo which I would like someone to pound me with before they fuck me with something bigger.
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ID verified mike, 63
Horley
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ID verified SympatheticSeeker, 70
Loughborough
Life's too short for anything less than exhilarating! I’m a discreet guy who enjoys both spontaneous hookups and meaningful connections, and I’m open to whatever sparks our interest. With a Taurus' steady nature, I bring a mix of playfulness and warmth—let's explore what we can create together, be it a steamy night or an exciting double date!
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ID verified GypsyWarrior, 49
Preston
I’m happy being in the company of someone I can communicate with someone who is emotionally intelligent. There is more to life than just sex, although sex and foreplay does make me extremely excited. I’m open minded to what excites the partner I’m with and if you really turn me on, I can become a beast under the sheets.
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lekkernoord, 64
Llandrindod Wells
Hoi guys, not the best photogenic when t comes to lighting but see pics in the private section. I used to have hair until it shaved me, left me open ... I've brown eyes, a masculine well balanced, intellectual, spiritual, NOT religious side, non-smoker, not on the scene and definitely not "a scene queen". Interests include listening to different types of music, including rock, heavy metal, travelling, swimming, going to the gym, and seeing what`s on at the cinema. Other interests also include going for walks in the country and by the sea. Favourite sports include Equestrianism, Big Truck Racing and the `ice game` played with pucks which are raced down to the centre of a circle - forgotten the name. Not overkeen on football. As for the Terminator look, it comes with a highly intellectual side, well knowledgeable on most things but definitely not into this playing "god" as I have to care for the whims of all though a protector and total loyal to the one's I look out for. I never make the best pictures though the camera makes "the best impression "according to what's around on the outside". Some people "know who" I am. I always makes a good impression.
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ID verified robbie, 72
Gainsborough
Good hard sex, me a top, love fun and good hard sex.
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colin, 69
Jesmond
Single guy living in Newcastle. Have my own place. Enjoy music, walking and reading. After quiet nights in and going out for live music and the cinema
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ID verified johndavid, 65
Edinburgh
I love older mature men I always have. I love being naked together, kissing, wanking, sucking and with a nice man I love being fucked.
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ID verified HumorousJester, 46
Saint Helens
I’m a 46-year-old gay male looking for meaningful interactions, whether that's a relationship or casual encounters. Standing at 6'2”, I’m discreet and prefer to keep things respectful. I enjoy social drinks and have a clear idea of what I want. If you’re interested in a straightforward connection, let's chat.
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