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jeco57, 69
Morden
I,m a shy reserved straight acting man looking for similar
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ID verified !Stuart!123, 68
Aylesbury
let's chat and see where it takes us. I can't see winks at the moment, so send me a message. If I'm in a chat room feel free to msg me.
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ID verified cpr19, 59
Westoe
Looking to make friends first then see what happens. If you feel the same then get in touch. Live in Harton area South Shields. Doms Absolutely not interested
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ID verified moonstar5, 57
Chorley
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CheerfulSportyhfidai, 70
Ammanford
At 70 and standing at 5'5", I'm a Gemini who's all about living life to the fullest. Whether it's hitting up clubs or enjoying some discreet meets, I'm here for some fun times and maybe a bit of mischief. I've got some tattoos that tell my story, and I'm open to whatever adventures come my way. Let's enjoy some social drinks and see where the night takes us!
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chiopy, 59
London
Happy looking for similar after adventure and fun together
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ID verified bonegripper, 75
Basingstoke
I would really like to take my sex activities to new levels. I enjoy getting naked, kissing, wanking and oral sex, but I'm sure there must be more to experience. I trim my pubes occasionally and my cock is uncut. I have a nice tight arse as well, if that's of any interest to you? I prefer non smokers. If you are in similar circumstances to me, but you can accommodate or willing to meet me in the car or in the open air or woods for some relaxed sex fun, then please get in touch. I look forward to hearing from you, Cheers for now, Steve, xxx
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wsmart, 74
Manchester
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leonblu101, 61
Halifax
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ID verified man_daft, 69
Glasgow
I enjoy the company of like minded guys who are looking for non complicated manly fun. Love a guy in his undies and even better when the undies are down and he takes mine off too! Oh kissing is a nice way to get to know one another too. Married guys are very welcome too.
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jabir17.2hh, 56
Ottery Saint Mary
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ID verified Horticult, 61
Dartford
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