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Testsubjects, 23
Reading
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ID verified MORLEY BATLEY BEAR, 54
Batley
Music and reading love travel near and far walks if flat love music - from Handel to modern Steven Wilson current fave. Enjoy cosy nights out rather than packed bar but not averse. Good food and company and please have a sense of humour.
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ID verified MJH, 56
Calne
I’m a recently widowed top looking for fun and connection.
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kool.x2, 41
Hendon
Easy going friendly genuine guy want to make friends something reguler would be nice.Like mature guys 45+ . Talk but not into endless chat.i am top but very much into Sensual things
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passiveguy4oldr, 45
Thorpe
Passive / sub guy looking for hot horny sessions from vanilla to dirty /sleasy. Well into nipple play, being fucked ,groups of older guys, ws cum-showers being taken and used as they see fit. Sometimes controlled by 'dirtyfatpig' on this site. Luv chatting to other bottoms about their experiences too.
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Nice, 68
Manchester
Going to somewhere special with lovely people like me having a lovely meal out with someone who likes me
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Highlander, 36
Aberdeen
I’m a 36-year-old guy who's interested in no-nonsense fun and casual encounters. At 5ft 10in and a bit bicurious, I enjoy discreet meets and mutual experiences. Let's keep it simple and enjoy our time together, whether it's a short-term fling or something a bit longer. If you’re into the same vibe, we should definitely connect.
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Phil, 70
Gloucester
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ID verified dantechmanify, 28
Leatherhead
A Dumb autistic blonde looking for fun
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ID verified ottoa, 54
London
just me ;)
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ID verified Derek, 65
Nottingham
I’m a 65-year-old gay man looking for friends with benefits or a meaningful relationship. I enjoy a vegetarian diet and prefer a smoke-free environment. Standing at 6ft with a few extra pounds, I’m open to long-distance connections as well. Let’s connect if you’re on the same page! I am looking for a meet to see how it goes. I am very trustworthy, caring, and loving. I like travel, shopping, and football. I like beach holidays overseas. There must be someone out there interested in me. I do not smoke.
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ID verified hertsu, 74
Borehamwood
easy going type of guy, enjoy a laugh, don't take myself to serious,looking for the same, I can accom or visit
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