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SuperFreestylerDBA, 76
Ayr
I like biking, walking, bowling, and having the odd pint. I’m 6.2 tall, about 14.7 stone, fairly slim, have really short hair (bald), and still have my beard.
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CompassionateScholar, 58
Durham
I'm easy to get on with. Just fancy getting together with guys. I have no predisposition or pre requirements. I just would like to have mates & maybe more. I scrub up good! I'm not the last turkey in the shop (that's a joke!)
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ID verified malcarluk, 78
Bolton
GWM Looking for Friends, not into SMOKERS, DRUGGIES, FACIAL HAIR or guys who wear women's underwear! If your profile says you are into any of these please close this profile now and walk on by!
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ID verified Stockyb, 70
Plymouth
Living in the Plymouth area ...not interested in self Granduer or anyone who thinks they are better than anyone else ....smiles win everytime
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SparklingCompanion11c57a, 56
Ballyclare
Enjoy life and people like to get to know someone and have some fun.
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lulman, 83
Ipswich
Honest, straightforward, generous, open-minded, sympathetic, very fit, athletic build, masculine, 73 happy years old, excellent sense of humour
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kent_bear, 56
Hastings
Mid 50's Love men over 65 and leather
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Billybob, 64
Alfreton
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Ricky, 54
Swansea
Looking forward to being someone to be with and used.
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ID verified lagondav8, 53
Cambridge
Just your average non scene (well, maybe a few visits to the pub now and again) guy.Quiet, reasonably well educated, have been 'accused' of being a combination of Victor Meldrew, Diana Trent & Tom Ballard (waiting for god), Clegg (last of the summer wine) in other words, I like a quiet life, but love a bit of sparkle and spice thrown into the mix...
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ID verified hughesy, 59
East Kilbride
Am in a committed and loving relationship with my husband, so am only seeking some fun, as a bit of no-strings activity doesn't hurt as long as you're honest and it is a viewpoint both myself and my partner agree on. Also looking for new friends as well for socialising so if it's one or the other, then that's fine.
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ID verified man4muscle, 55
London
Seaside fun in summer and winter fun in London with wide range of interests
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