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BikerBuck, 77
Santa Ana
Seeking a relationship with a submissive male partner aged 18 to 40 with extremely sensitive nipples for pleasurable sensuous, homoerotic rope bondage sex. I do only pleasurable loving touch and interactions; nothing rough or degrading; no tickling either. I'm not a bottom, sub or versatile: only a top and only during sex. Outside of sex, in life, I'm not your Dom or Master: I'm your loving affectionate relationship partner. You can be a bottom, top, versatile, a Total Top, newbie, twink, Alpha, experienced, curious or bi, or even straight as long as you are willing to surrender to me as my total pleasure-bondage sub in sexual activity. If you’re furry, lean and rugged, with a muscular ripped physique, and/or especially if you’re a Nubian god or a Viking/ Nordic god type, cowboy or motorcyclist: I'm here to love you and pleasure-worship you. This is bondage and restraints only used as a tool to push your pleasure sensory limits and help you access your own beastly pleasure-power. HMU
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calsobay, 74
Long Beach
Rural raised husky guy. Down to earth and with manners. Enjoy being outdoors, working, socializing and exploring new interests. Tend to be very flexible, patient and attentive.
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Denis26tgr, 26
Los Angeles
I’m 26 years old a young, single guy who loves sports and traveling
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FascinatingSnuggler78d3b9, 59
Los Angeles
I'm a 59-year-old widower, ready to explore the gay dating scene again. I stand at 6 feet tall and have some tattoos that add character to my life. Whether you’re looking for friends, casual encounters, or something more serious, I’m interested in connecting. Let’s be upfront about our desires and see if we can vibe together.
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SpiritualMusician59f54b, 51
San Francisco
HOT MUSCLED MEN GET ME EXITED AND TWO EVEN MORE PLYING BEHIND THE DECKS IS EXSTACY
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Miguel1941, 84
Claremont
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CompassionatePhieeeb, 23
Dobbins
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BoldBeliever40ece7, 53
California Hot Springs
I am a woman with a kind heart, kind feelings, and a calm energy that embraces and brings peace. I like to give my best in every relationship, in every gesture and every word, because I believe that love is built on honesty, tenderness, and kindness. I value sincere connection, mutual respect, and those bonds nurtured by patience, care, and the willingness to walk together from the heart.
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CaringFighter97, 50
California City
A Little About Me ❤️ I’m a 50-year-old gay man who believes the best things in life are meant to be shared. I’m self-employed, independent, and have built a life I’m proud of. I’m also widowed, which has taught me to appreciate love, loyalty, laughter, and the precious moments that make life meaningful. At this stage of my life, I’m not looking for games or something temporary. I’m hoping to meet a genuine man who is kind, emotionally mature, affectionate, and ready to build something real. Someone to share quiet nights, spontaneous adventures, good conversations, plenty of laughter, and all the little moments in between. I’m looking for a companion for life a best friend, a partner, and someone who wants to grow together. If you’re looking for something genuine and believe there’s still plenty of love and adventure ahead, maybe we should get to know each other. ❤️
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Nephtalie, 32
Los Angeles
I’m a 32-year-old guy looking for casual encounters or something more serious, depending on the chemistry. I’m versatile and easy-going, enjoying both online chats and in-person meets. If you’re interested in exploring mutual interests and seeing where it leads, let’s connect.
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jtlgmedia, 65
Costa Mesa
I love life, and that includes meeting all kinds of people.
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jfukuoka, 74
San Francisco
Hey there! I'm a 74-year-old who enjoys the occasional drink and loves to connect with new people. As a smooth operator standing at 5'7", I'm all about friendship and maybe a little more if the vibe is right. I believe in safe fun, and as a Cancer, I can be quite nurturing. Let’s see where our adventures lead us!
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