New York is one of Gaydar's biggest state communities in the US — 7% of our national membership calls it home. The community is strongest in and around New York City and Brooklyn, but real members are spread well beyond those cities too. Wherever you're based in New York, the fastest way to find out who's around is to look, not guess.
JoinA view of our New York membership, refreshed regularly from our member database rather than hand-written into this page.
Christopher45, 63
Herkimer
A nice man makes me happy plus dancing and good music
See who's nearby
MichaelMB, 39
North Babylon
I enjoy getting to know other people. I also feel that the more I know someone the more satisfying the physical connection will be.
See who's nearby
ID verified bigbeeush, 26
Bronx
I'm 26, 5'11", and open to whatever comes my way. As a gay Aquarius, I appreciate authenticity and am seeking a relationship that’s built on trust and fun. I don’t drink and have no tattoos, but I’m ready to embrace new experiences with the right person. If you’re looking for something real, let’s chat and see if we click.
See who's nearby
Aaron, 39
Florida
I'm Top I'm a plumber I hate lies Be truefu be loving
See who's nearby
EasygoingTeacher450ac3, 76
Coram
Love listening to music and casual sex. Like meeting new people
See who's nearby
FrankRob, 43
New York
I’m very kind and lovely
See who's nearby
PrettyBlaze8AD672, 38
New York
I met my partner here years ago, and we built a love that, from my perspective, could never be broken. Sadly, family pressure changed everything. He chose to marry a woman because his family wanted grandchildren, and that decision left my heart shattered. I know many people here have experienced similar pain, so I'm asking respectfully: if you are not genuinely interested in a serious, long-term relationship, please do not message me. I'm not here for games or temporary connections. I'm looking for a loyal, loving bottom who wants to build something real, lasting, and meaningful.
See who's nearby
David, 30
New York
I’m happiest when I’m being myself, enjoying good conversations, laughing, listening to music, and spending time with someone who makes me feel comfortable. I get excited by genuine chemistry, new experiences, and good vibes.
See who's nearby
Thomsex88, 47
New York
Sex, love and cuddle 🥰 Humanitarian Honesty is my best policy
See who's nearby
Profile, 70
Honeoye Falls
I am a gay man looking for a passionate man. You must like kissing, licking, rimming, sucking, and of course to be fucked. I am 70, six foot two inches, 212 lbs., salt and pepper hair, hazel eyes, beard, slightly hairy body, d/d/s free, nudist, top, discreet. The first pic is me. The rest of the pics are what I like. If you are more than one hundred miles away, and live on the North American continent, I prefer you host for a length of time depending on distance.
See who's nearby
staffofsteel, 65
Brooklyn
See who's nearby
InsightfulGliderD, 38
New York
I'm currently deployed, so my schedule can be a little unpredictable, but I always appreciate genuine conversation. I value honesty, loyalty, respect, and a good sense of humor. I believe meaningful connections start with friendship, open communication, and being yourself. I’m looking forward to meeting someone genuine and seeing where a good connection might lead. ❤️
See who's nearbyMembers on Gaydar in New York.
We're still building our showcase for this view. Join free and start browsing members near you directly.
Create a free profile and start browsing real members near you today.
Join